We cannot change or control anyone else and their actions in life…we cannot play the blame game as to blaming everyone else for the way that we ourselves choose to be in life…we have our own minds and we make our own choices..and we do what we want to do in life…that goes with anything in life…we can make excuses or we can get on board and do whatever it is that we so desire to do…because life is about our decisions and our choices…we control ourselves…not anyone else..only we ourselves control who we are…so today I just wanted to say to everyone of us…let us stop blaming…stop looking at everyone else and their actions…stop considering the past…stop laying on the past and the regrets that happened way back when…and start looking within ourselves at what we do to what we don’t do…for as I said we all can do whatever it is that we so desire to do..and as always everything always begins with us and our choices that we decide to make…so let us accept who we are..and let us consider who we are…and then let us adjust all of them things and all of them places that need to be adjusted in our lives to help us to be who we need to be for Christ…to help us to rise up and walk in the light of the Lord…always doing the best we can…always owning up so to speak to who we are…not what someone else is or what someone else did or done..but just work on who we are…personally…for life isn’t meant to be lived always blaming others for us…and always considering others and what their doing..other than considering us and what were doing in our life…so I pray that we all begin with that person in whom looks at us every morning in that mirror and that we work on that person…and that we consider that person and that persons actions…and that persons attitude..and that persons thoughts…we consider who that person really and truly is in life…for you see when we get better with who we are then we grow in the Lord..and our lives begin to change…for it’s all about that one on one relationship with Christ…it’s always about who the Lord knows that we are…not so much as to who the other people are or what the other people are doing..for a lot of times I think people are like little kids going constantly to the Lord telling on others..always taddling about others…but you know we all have our faults and we all have work that needs to be done..but as I said when we work on us…then were able to be better with others…for then we are more like Christ when we grow..when we develop the fruit of the spirit in our own lives and hearts..Galatians 5:22-23…so let us not consider others..but yet fail to consider ourselves….let us always ask the Lord to show us personally any place that needs to be mended, healed or fixed…because daily it’s a work and we all are a work in progress…and only we can work on us…so let go of all the petty stuff…let go of all the drama…let go of all of the talking and gossiping about everyone else and all that they do…and just look within yourself….and as you look there be honest with you…and be honest with the Lord…for life is way to short to live it day in and day out always being so upset and mad at someone else and at something someone done or did…because as I said we can’t change others..but we can change ourselves..and we can’t control others..but just know we can always control ourselves and what we ourselves choose to do…so let us fix us…for guys “us” is a constant work…it never and will it ever get to that place that we are not needing to be worked on…for we life in a fallen world..and constantly we all get bombarded with life…and life in general…so let us be a light for Jesus..and let us love everybody…and let us get along with everybody to the best of our ability…and let us do unto others as we would have for them to do unto us…Luke 6:31…and let us not ever return evil for evil…but let us always overcome evil with good..Romans 12:21…for it is one thing to know the word of God..but it is another whole ball game doing what the word says…but that’s where change occurs and that’s where growth begins..so let us all get to growing and growing at all times for the Lord…In Jesus’ name, I do ask and pray…Amen and Amen…Be blessed today my dear sweet friends and remember wherever you go and whatever you do, Be a light for our Father, Much love to you all, Mandi