I know so many people in life that honestly to goodness are so blessed with the life that they live and they have but somehow they still complain about it all..they complain about their family..they complain about their home..they literally just murmur and complain about everything..and I wonder to myself do they even know that they are complaining and murmuring so much?..or have they just become so accustomed to doing it that it has nothing more than become a habit for them..because a lot of times were just creatures of habit..and we just say things that really we have no business saying..we complain about things that shouldn’t even be complained about..and we end up in this ritual of doing it so to speak that we fail to even realize that we are..and then all at the same time were praising the Lord for our life..but complaining and murmuring as well…and guys the word of God says that death and life are in the power of our tongues and they that love it will eat the fruit thereof..Proverbs 18:21..it says our tongues are a fire, a world of iniquity: it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire from hell..James 3:6…for it says out of the same mouth preceeds blessings and cursings..and it says my breathen this things should not be..for how can bitter water and sweet water come forth from the same fountain?..for it can’t, and nor should it..for no fountain can yield both fresh water and salt water..James 3:10-12..and neither should we in the way we talk and represent our Lord and our life in which we live..for if we do were only fooling ourselves..guys I think we need to stop and listen to what we say..listen to the way we talk about others..listen to the way we talk about our lives..for I believe that if we were paying attention to what we were saying that we would not say a whole lot of things..and as well I believe that if we received what we did say..we honestly wouldn’t be so quick to open our mouths and spew out a whole bunch of nonsense and foolishness..for we are blessed..and we are loved..and if for some they could step over into someone else’s shoes for even but a moment I think that they would learn how to appreciate the life and the family they do have..for we seem to forget all to well what all the Lord has done for us..we seem to forget just how bad things could be..if it wasn’t for the Lord..so today guard your words that you speak..live a life of peace in your home..stop complaining about everything and everyone..and stop feeling sorry for yourself as if everyone is against you..for I promise ya their not..and just live a life of joy and peace..the word says that whatsoever things are of a good report think on them things..Philippians 4:8..for you see we have to think about what were saying before we even say it..so in the midst of this thinking about it..ask yourself what is it that I am trying to accomplish by saying these things..because we will never enjoy our lives at all if we live them or if we are living them this way..and let us all pray and ask the Lord to renew minds..Romans 12:2/Ephesians 4:23..and to create in us clean and pure hearts..Psalm 24:4/Psalm 51:10..for our lives reflect who we are..and what we say reflects on what we think and how we feel..so let us grow and let us be thankful for it all..thankful for our home, our marriages, our families..our friends..and just for everything that God has done, to everything that He is going to do..for our God is great and He is greatly to be praised..and yet once again if we feel we need to say something about someone but yet we wouldn’t say it to them or even in front of them then we shouldn’t say anything at all..but we should take it and pray about it and give it to God and let it go..for that is the best solution for any and all of the complaints that we may have..taking them to the Lord and seeing how He feels about them..for them solutions would come for whatever the complaint or whatever the problem..for only God, can do what God can do for each of us and our lives..so let us once again pray about everything..and worry about nothing..In Jesus’ name, I do ask and pray..Amen and Amen..Be blessed today my dear sweet friends and remember wherever you go and whatever you do, Be a light for our Father, Much love to you all, Mandi