When you get married you make them vows to your spouse…you stand there and make a commitment to love through better or worse through richer or poorer…you promise to stay committed…and daily we do this for our marriages..daily you build and work on your marriage for it is a godly wonderful thing that the Lord has blessed us with..Amen..you don’t just fall way from your marriage and or do you fall out of love with your spouse..but somehow daily with every little taking them for granted..with every little so called gesture you make…with every little giving your time and attention to everyone else other than your spouse..you begin to fall away from them..and guys the marriage is founded upon the Lord our God..and our marriages represent the church…so you never compromise when it comes to your spouse and or for the things you do for them or to the things that you say to them..for the bible says that the man is the head of the house just as Christ is the head of the church..and the husband is the one that it flows from..all of our home life flows from the Lord down to the husband and trickles on down to the wife and to the children..Amen..for the scripture says this unto us..”Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing…Ephesians 5:22-24..for the word as well goes on to say this…”Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh..Ephesians 5:25-31..this is the thing that really gets me nowadays..is the fact at how husbands and wives place and put everyone else above their spouses..they disregard the spouses feelings and the spouses emotions..but then they go out and about and they speak and talk to others in such a loving and caring way..and that just isn’t right whatsoever…so guys today sit yourself down and go back and look back over your life with your spouse…and think about how you meet..and how much you cared and loved them so very much..think about them dating years that you had together..for I know it was probably the most happiest of times for you..you placed so much into them dating years..but guys we daily have to date our spouses…we’ve gotta keep on dating them and staying committed to only them…for they should always be number one..so today think about what it is that you are doing for your marriage..think about what you can do to make it better..for we have to work on them..for the devil and his tactics and schemes is to destroy the home..because they say so goes the home so goes the church..so guard your life guys like nothing you’ve ever guarded before…and keep yourself committed to your spouse..love them and honor them..cherish them…and do things just for them…doesn’t have to big the thing that you may do for your spouse..but just something special..so stay faithful…stay true blue..and stay steadfast in love with your significant other…for when we love our spouses..it is a beautiful and glorious thing…for not only does others see it the love you have for each other..but as well our children see it..and the follow and model their relationships that they will have in their lives after it..so think about how you are adding to your marriage..and then think about what you can do to make it better..for just as we are a work in progress so are our marriages..so don’t let them fall to the back burner of your life..but keep it up their at all times on the front burner so to speak..always thinking of ways to make it better..In Jesus’ name, I do ask and pray..Amen and Amen…Be blessed today my dear sweet friends and remember wherever you go and whatever you do, Be a light for our Father, Much love to you all, Mandi