“So I had read a article on child development..and at how it is so very crucial how they are raised the first 10 years of a child’s life..they say that time is the most important..it says that any trauma that occurs..any words spoken over them..if they feel loved or if they feel they don’t measure up or get approval from their parents..then the rest of their adult years they will seek this out..and feel this way about the person in whom they are..Amen..and I thought about this and it is so true..because I know many people whom are married..and are still seeking approval or acceptance from their parent or parents..for they didn’t get it as a child..so they still talk about how they felt..and how they feel..all the while never releasing it..or ever letting it go..not one day usually goes by that they don’t think about it..about how they were treated and spoken too..and how they lived in their home as a child..and the things they went through..Amen..for you can see the difference in children..and how they are treated and raised to how much confidence they have..how much laughter they have..and how they are not afraid to do big things or anything for that matter..they are secure and they feel safe and loved..Amen!”

“But children who are not most of the time are rebellious and they act out in many ways..being disobedient..talking back..pretty much doing..anything and everything to grab attention..and simply to just being noticed..Amen..but I do know that getting over your past and moving on in your future is hard to do..letting go of what was done and said is super hard..but trying to get more out of something never changes anything..only the Lord can take it from us and make something beautiful..Isaiah 61:1-3..but we must be willing to forgive..to be healed..and let it go..because we will never grow into the person that the Lord intents for us to be if we don’t..Amen..and parents if you are raising children..be careful with your words and your actions..and if you don’t give them another thing in life please let them children know that they are loved and loved BIG..Amen..for we are raising the next generation..so let us break off the past and let us move on into the future..doing better than what we had..and being better with who we are..Amen..for it is in His name, Jesus’ name, that I do ask and pray..Amen and Amen..Be blessed today my dear sweet friends and remember wherever you go and whatever you do, Be a light for our Father, Much love to you all, Mandi ❤