If we only desired for us to be better…and really and honestly to be better…to do better…to act better…and just to live better….live better on the inside and the out…quit all the worrying and fussing about others and how they’re living their lives….and just focus on our own lives and living them to the fullest…not gossiping, not telling someone else’s story…but just loving and living a beautiful life…if we desire that than our worlds would really change…our home life would change…our happiness level would change…and pretty much our relationships would change…see it’s not our business to focus on what someone else is doing…if were concerned then by all means let us pray…for by praying then a whole lot can get accomplished, cause praying guys as well we know is what makes the difference and changes things, in all of our lives…and it’s not our place to tell about someone else’s life and how they have lived their life, or how their living there life…if someone wants someone else to know then they themselves will tell them….that’s not for you or I to speak of or to be bringing up….see we know what the saying says and how the saying goes…and I pray we don’t fall into those bottom two…but just the top one…and that is this.., it says that great people talk about ideas, average people talk about things, and small people talk about other people…see the word of God says for us to not let any unwholesome talk come out of our mouth..but only that which is good and is edifying..that it may minister grace to the hearers…Ephesians 4:29….see everyone likes a juicy story…and isn’t it a shame that people would rather here of the shortcomings of others…way more than the uplifting and good stories of others…see if we talk about the accomplishments that others have made, then people say that we’re bragging….and that is just plum ridiculous…but one the other hand…really what I pray for us all is that as we would go into this New year…and that we wouldn’t talk about anyone else and their life…but that only we would pray for them…or reach out with Gods grace and help them along the way, if that’s what’s needed….see we focus so much on others…that we fail to stop and see ourselves, our actions and our attitudes…let us be the change that we are wanting to see in this world…for the post said this,…people are not so apt as to taking our opinion…as they are as to watching us and our lives and actions, and just how it is that we are living…remember guys that actions always speak louder than words….so let our words be few…and let our actions be many in this coming year…In Jesus’ name I do ask  and pray..Amen and Amen!!! Be blessed today my dear sweet friends and remember wherever you go and whatever you do, Be a light for our Father, Much love to you all, Mandi